SHIPS with lessons

Each of us in some part of life would have to sail on certain ships and we tend to interpret it as tedious events that drain so much of energy where most of it escapes while we learn to stir the ship on our own. It’s never an easy task to board on a ship without any guidance yet all of us do and the outcome is certainly something worthwhile and the sacrifices done will surely turn out to be good memories. Well, there are a few ships that really teach about life throughout the journey of obtaining knowledge.

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FriendSHIP is the most soul penetrating ship that comes with a package of emotions and the resulting outbursts tend to take a toll at times. Friends for life are generated throughout this phase of education and especially for those who are genuinely attentive towards friends at the most needed time then they will be starred or highlighted in the life’s diary. Some come with a preposition and shake hands while some come with a permanent agreement and make sure there’s no absence during the journey. People with different facades really make us appreciate life regardless of the backstab and pain that comes and torment us temporarily leaving scars that contribute to our rise or cause one to reprise the events shading away from light. All and all it’s always a trip worth holding up to in our mind compared to scaling it up in phones and albums as moments worth reminiscing. 

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Every success comes with long queues of perseverance and that hardSHIP tends to leave some distinctive standing point or resemblance for ourselves which differentiates us from another person. Those sleepless nights accompanied by a cup of hot coffee and cool breeze turns into exclusive nights described in a whole new level. The extremity in us will be put to test making us speechless seeing our own capability. Every sunrise is treasured for it marks another day which gives hope and possibilities of gaining another chance to attempt something new. Positive vibes might not at all times secure an optimistic outlook but it surely fuels back the heart with encouragement and satisfies the soul with enough fire to not be laid back. Enough strength is then found to secure the fire from vanishing, keeping goals and visions intact and ensures one is in line with their destiny or ambitions.

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Besides that, some find their potential soul mate by mapping their way from north till south while some go across the seas (Sabah & Sarawak). A relationSHIP is officially secured and a promise is sealed to stay beside each other without withdrawal. The synchronization of hearts that can calm down chaos in mind is something worth treasuring apart from the purpose that one initially came into the institution. A focused mind will not be sidetracked when importance is supplemented in equal amount. Both parties will ensure they achieve their ambition by being each other’s pillar of strength and at times accept silence as the answer for un-recruited confusions. Sometimes multiple attitudes are attended without judgments and it allows one to know another without discretion. 

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Shying away from all does not tune along the entire life and the bonus point would be fighting over it by the sudden throw of responsibility causing one to lead a group of potential people. The gates towards LeaderSHIP will always be locked when we disregard the art of outshining through cracks and defects. No one is specifically chosen to be someone but it all depends on the decision one makes. The star of the day can be many people at once or just one who concludes everything smartly and gains enough points to proceed to the next stage. Everything does not subject into our favor but it is about persuading what you step foot into and continue it without backing off. The stress disguised by the courage and determination will be challenging and when all comes to an end it forms a strong foundation that gives one access to multiple areas without doubting their capability.

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Moreover, a whole semester of InternSHIP will not go unforgotten; maybe not a hot topic or favorite topic to talk about for some but certainly something which will be opted to look back when facing tough situations in working areas. The first exposure towards the reality gets one to be thrown back due to the drastic adjustments that need to be done and sometimes it gives all a tough time to include memories and people from the past. Time constraint will become a major reason and it’ll be affecting our loved ones to the extent where every silence will be pinpointed as ignorance. Dealing with all this secures patience within us and prays for all the silent thoughts to be acknowledged while fulfilling the requirements to complete where we started as well as learn values that aids in achieving the desired life. 

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At last becoming the rightful owner of a scroll that declares one’s achievement not only as a graduate but also as a contributor towards the society; the moment can only be explained through smiles and tears of joy. This ownerSHIP declares the faith our parents hold upon us, the belief where educators and our loved ones showered on us and most importantly the willpower of our own that ensured we don’t rest till success is attained. A part of life is concluded in a land that gathers everyone to witness the hidden talents while new places awaits to be explored. The belief of surviving in a place where everything seems to be new makes one become a fighter and when the announcement is made to walk up the stage it surely makes one to beam with pride since we have successfully sailed across the sea.

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The real-life challenges are about to start and a whole new environment awaits to welcome ‘graduates’ with open hands only when there is the willingness to resurface no matter how much the situations threaten to submerge you. A survivor is born through many defects so there’s no need to explain perfection but don’t give up on displaying who you are through the work etiquettes. Let there always be pride to be one of the productions of UMK! CONGRATULATIONS & Good luck seniors @ UMK graduates!

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P.S- Sorry if I've left out some people. 😓

Twinkle Twinkle Little Star

Who will ever forget their first day of University or college especially when it’s not a 10 minutes’ drive from home? It’s always hard to be away from home and the warm welcome from family but despite that each of us still pack our things and gets ready to leave even though the pain within denies the departure and wishes to be delayed or canceled. Once, you have seen the building a slight tremor forms and it’ll be a little at ease with our family right beside us and of course, it’ll become better when unfamiliar faces start to share a smile. So, the overall day lights up just that the first week will be a little sleep deprived with the only objective of extending the excitement and it's part of the welcoming ceremony by the university itself. 😁

 

Being a JUNIOR is definitely one of the best times in University life but we don’t realize it till we gradually step out of that zone giving away to the next batch to have a taste. In previous years there was bullying where being a junior comes with fearsome but in this civilized era there are no longer extreme cases and the bonding seems to be a little instant without hesitation. A very much highlighting thing in the upcoming juniors in my institution would be their fashion sense and sometimes we have to ask them for some tips I guess. A head start towards fashion just makes them much more admired and with a smile and a simple ‘HI’ seriously there’s nothing more welcoming than that.

The special thing when it’s being a JUNIOR is the innocence mixed with a little awkwardness. When Seniors question, it’s always the truth and there will be no judgment when it comes to sharing things. Sometimes the innocence comes with a layer of protective coat and certain conversations will end up awkwardly. Of course, the most surprising thing will be the naughtiness that gets locked up or suppressed with the need to put up a good impression forgetting that the hidden mischievousness is something very much admirable. It is fun to see that part because it assures comfort and the happiness that radiates makes the unnecessary worries to fly away giving way for a good memory to be created.

Being the youngest also comes with the privilege of gaining a big brother or sister. The concern and affection that lies on each other make the wish of being close to family come true. Of course, nothing is more important when compared to our beloved family back at home but this family which is formed through imperfections, guides and protects within the walls of University and also extends until the end of life. The messages and time to time voice and video calls just make the love bloom and the blessing itself make life merrier. The bonding period long or short does not judge what you are or who you should be instead motivates and stays through thick and thin acknowledging each other’s presence even winning over time which sometimes does not budge.

A phase of learning new things is also another key thing of being a JUNIOR. Throughout life, we keep on learning and there’s no stopping but during this specific phase, life will be seen from a totally new perspective. Friends for life are gained and the funny part would be the self-interpretation done and commented on them which then turn out to be wrong once you get to know them personally. Living in the same room with the same people and talking over hot drinks till late night is one of the new things that become a routine and enjoyment. It then gets extended till inviting Seniors and the circle of communication and connection gets widen giving way to experiences and unexpected talks which end in thinking how unique each person turns out to be and with that comes adaptation.

 

Above all this, this is an important phase because this is where one will be able to create their own standing point and find the answers to questions they have been dwelling in life. Some come with an entirely different motive and enter the gates that welcome them but find their turning point here and from there onwards, life will be from a different angle. This is also the phase where one will start to fight their fears and find the courage to step in front an audience who might or might not favor them. Unexpected situations then build and define your strengths and weaknesses will be composed. The mask which is worn to avoid weird stares will be removed and with that, every footstep will have its own significance and every mile of the journey will come with a lesson that is not acquired from the classroom or books.

Being a JUNIOR is a real privilege and since it happens only once in a lifetime do not let go of the opportunity of being wild and innocent. Do not let fear conquer you because it’ll pull you away from picturing the real deal behind an event and the optimism will be left far behind. Every spare time you gain take it as a blessing and coax yourself to do something different. Dear juniors, we as seniors are always willing to give the best talks and we always want the best for you guys as well. Regardless of a late bloomer or a fast survivor each of you is a true gem and we wish you would realize that as well and reveal your true identity. Make wonderful memories and who knows something may await you around the corner waiting to make you smile! 

 

Thanks for always being a kind reminder and make us reminisce our JUNIOR life fondly… Last but not least we LOVE YOU JUNIORS!


 

Believing in the IMPOSSIBILITY

Impossibility starts within us when the moment we start to believe that something is hard to achieve and does not lie within our range of capability. Of course, insane ideas cannot be comprehended but what about your dreams that you feel certain about? For sure others will make you doubt your own capacity but then don’t give up so fast because till you don’t give a try you will not know. We are never born as a failure but we do go through failures to make us stronger, wiser and bolder. All of us are a winner just that for that declaration to come from us really takes a lot of time and thinking. 

Firstly we believe in the impossibility by having courage. Intimidating events are just so many that we will keep on replaying it in our mind without even hitting the pause button. Fear governs our way faster than courage and it makes us hard to process the fact that it’s just an element that exists in order to fix the mind which rotates thinking fear has the upper hand. In short, in existence of fear courage builds and it’s not just about coaxing one to come out of that zone but to build that determination to finish where you started. Fear loves to stir all our emotions into one big pot of soup. So what should we do then? Have a taste of that soup and add in a little salt and pepper if necessary because remember you’re the ultimate cook and a certified destiny maker. Face your fears without backing off that’s the key component to be courageous.

 

 Idealize yourself has someone that enables you to conquer the impossibility. You can be like anyone. Maybe it could be any superhero you see from movies or even real-life heroes who have made you seen life in a different way. Of course, you might wonder how superheroes are able to give this impression of conquering impossibility. Well, learn the lesson behind their actions and put it in your term. For example, Spiderman makes his way through scenes that require his attention through the sticky webs he releases from his wrists and for normal humans like us maybe the significance and the speed of the web can be related to the number of people we are able to connect to save the person on time at the scene. Never misinterpret the extreme actions on screen and put it into action then it’ll turn out to be a mishap which puts your life in danger instead of saving one. 

 

Besides that, invite challenges since it’ll give you the strength to pull through hardships when you’re on your way in putting the impossibility into action. Challenges don’t really favor everyone especially those who have this perception of life should be simple and a day is just another ordinary day which has 24 hours and includes the daily chores and there's working to ensure our stomach is fed. To add up a little spice, a little entertainment and enjoyment to make life thrilling but does this kind of life really make living worthwhile? Believing in the impossibility makes one savor challenges and accept it as tests that bring out the best in them. Challenges are a platform that ensures we realize our potential and utilize it to the maximum and don’t claim defeat in an instant. Through challenges, an impossible failure is born.

 

Impossibility stands at the edge asking you to wake up from your dream since most of us sometimes just dream away the impossibilities after so many tries and errors.  So it’s now in our hands, to sleep away the dream or walk away with the fulfillment of execution with or without the confirmation of grasping victory. It’s totally different feeling when you start to live with the impossibility and believe that you will be able to hang on to the faith that is slipping away. The impossibility might be a totally unforeseen or uncontrollable situation and it puts you through so much and makes you feel at the edge. It does not cater for your feelings and seriously makes you miserable and makes you wish for life to come to an end instantly. But the moment you stand at the edge taking an oath to take a ride regardless of the stops then here you are awakening from your dreams of impossibility with the willingness to make it happen.

Moreover, understand and make peace with the elements or components surrounding the impossibility. Let there be a balance so that the inner peace will always remain composed. The struggle of achieving the impossibility will always be because we are opposing certain emotions which are here to stay and deliberately take a few steps back instead of being a soldier who fights for justice; it’s easy said that proven. So, make it happen by bringing opposites together like Yin and Yang but to initiate the positive side is not that easy with so many people telling that their opinions should be highly considered. Push away all those and just listen to your heartbeat and find the reason for those beats. Is it just about pumping blood to the whole body system or is it to pump adrenaline and drive the inner passion to achieve the impossibility? 

“Do not just believe in the impossibility, be ONE”, that’s what Barry Allen the hero from Flash TV series says. Well, what he says might not be in everyone’s life page but it can be something worth thinking about because when there’s hard work and above all a fierce determination it’ll surely lead you to success and be an awakening for the rest out there. Pull through whatever comes in life and enjoy those which come by surprises making you speechless. History is made when a day is not seen as another ordinary day and each of us has it in us to be part of it. Never underestimate yourself!

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