All five fingers are not the same

Life is just full of surprises that sometimes we don’t know what are ahead of us. It’s always like unwrapping a gift without an idea what is in it similar as to meeting a new or unexpected people in our life. It may be like a mini bomb making us intimidated or as serene as the early mornings making us smile whenever we think about it. People are interesting, each with their own unique style and character. Yet, sometimes they annoy us and we start to complain failing to see the bright side of them. That’s where the common say of our mothers, elderly people or even sometimes friends will ring, “All five fingers are not the same.”

Life would be perfect when everything runs in accordance as we desire, but in reality, it is uncontrollable. Instead, it will be full of sparks which comes all of a sudden without a warning and sometimes we tend to forget to enjoy the beauty of the five different fingers with the absence of one important element.  “ACCEPTANCE”

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     1.    PAIN

It is part and parcel of life. People express it by words and sometimes physically (e.g: abusing but I do believe that nowadays people are civilized enough to quite this.). Workload and countless commitment make us stress eventually making us forget that there are other people out there who go through the same situation but double it. We show our stress via harsh words or by hurting our loved ones or friends through our actions like not acknowledging their presence beside us or being absent minded around them. During a dilemma, we prefer to be left alone and yet there will be some who wants to know your problem. Their caring attitude turns out to be bossy to us and eventually we throw words. The person who has to face the grumpy attitude will have to hear all the grumbling and harsh words. Painful yet by accepting their attitude the day turns out to be yet another normal day. In addition to it, when the context of pain is tackled on a daily basis with ACCEPTANCE we just get stronger. 

      2.    HURT

The degree of hurt determines the level of pain we will undergo. However, the frequency of hurt depends on human’s attitude. For example, smacking people playfully may not favor all as well as putting some sense of humor in a serious situation. When we get hurt, we turn out to be absent-minded never resonating the lesson behind the event. We then seek revenge and try to be on par with the person but what differences does it make between the two of us?  I do understand it is hard to let go and being hurt by someone will awaken our weak points. Our hidden phobias may arise depending on how the person hurt us and most importantly brings out the devil within us. Anger and seeking revenge is for those who fail to differentiate illusion and reality because if they are able to do so hurt will be ACCEPTED as a test which they use to clarify their weaknesses and work on it. Transformation towards bringing out the best will be focused.

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      3.    DISAPPOINTMENT

When have we gone through life without disappointment? We expect straight A’s but instead, it will be a twist. Disappointment actually builds us. When we fail or fall there are two ways. Find a way or take a way. Disappointment leads to hurt and pain, so now it depends on our decision. Finding leads to more disappointment ahead but taking might seem like an escape but actually, it isn’t. For example, your passion is doing a degree in literature but when you hear being an engineer confirms you a job and it pays you higher you take that. Along the way, you find your interest being lessen but you graduate just to survive. At the end, you regret and picture the other way around. If you find a way, even though you are less assured of a secured job in the future you will be a fighter. You will work really hard and prove that following your passion is never a wrong decision despite the disappointment along the way. So, ACCEPT disappointment and you will see the lesson and joy behind everything.

ACCEPTANCE plays a significant role in our life since it gives us the patience and strength to go through the struggles or challenges in life especially when getting acquainted with new people. We just stop complaining and rejoice the moments with them. We find a place for them in our world and we keep the good memories and let go the bad ones. Do bare in mind that each person are unique and if we tend to manipulate and change them we are just establishing a way to make them fail because success is not only based on your achievements but also on how successfully you’re finding your way in this world by just being YOURSELF!

Let’s enjoy the company of different people without comparison. :)

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P.S- There is always a limit for all. So, let acceptance turn you into a better person without changing who you are but never let anyone take advantage of you.