Understanding sculptured to PERFECTION

Emotions are something that cannot be controlled no matter how much we try not to allow it to take control of us. Each people differ with their unique way of expressing the common emotions. The exclusive one would be those who deny expressing those natural emotions since many fail to look at the beauty of their way of being a normal human and this can only be done through UNDERSTANDING a person and with that comes accepting a person for who they are.

Understanding a person turns out to be a difficult task nowadays due to our own self-centered attitude. Try reducing the self a little and turn it into self-LESS. It’s never an easy task since since we will feel agitated due to the person’s attitude on the other side. We will be cramming our last minute assignments and tasks and at that moment some drama may seem to be interesting and at the same time inevitable but it will never upturn the frown on our face. Among the most difficult part of life is entertaining a down motivated or calming down an overly motivated person who debates their standing. So, feel that person and then you will automatically agree to be their ears despite the work or task because who knows you might be the one next in line to seek some advise or seek a companion to share your views.

Besides that, it’s better to be slapped with the truth than to be kissed with a lie. Accept that a person will have multi façades and it’s better to see all instead of seeing just the good side which pleases you to no end. Look at the dark side that governs them. See how anger causes their outburst to be a unique design or their tantrums to hit the dance floor in the most unexpected way but of course do not allow yourself to be turned into a punching bag. It’s never a necessary to apologize for being oneself, so learn their tempo and dance in accordance to it. You would be surprised by the amazing conclusion at the end of the conversation and rest assured that you will never regret. Let them feel comfortable to be exposed instead of locking in all their feelings and be dispatched as inhuman.

 As mentioned above humans are unique and in that population of people, there are those who disappear or mentally shut down everything due to facing extremity. They prefer to be on their own and it’ll turn out to be unfair to us whereby we will insist on approaching us and talk things out. However, some are not really ready or wish to do so because those struggles or tough trials can only be talked out but a proper solution can only be draft by oneself. When we learn to handle things on our own we will be able to go through many things without a tinge of intimidation. However, there’s this caring nature which reminds us of the promise to not quit on each other regardless of any situation. Somehow, those promises have to be turned down as a sign of respect for their choices because they are the ones who will be able to dictate their life.

Never take silence for granted because it is a beautiful language which does not require words but will be described in the most intuitive way. In silence, we might feel harmony or at the same time treacherous due to the bitter distractions. There are some who declare the silent time as their savior, turning away all connections and only attend to people that will cause their world turmoil. Other than that, everything will be side tracked and their genuine decision might cause some to get hurt in the name of ‘NOT NEEDED’ anymore mistaking for their temporary “NO-ENTRY”. To clarify things sometimes tough choices has to be made and honestly, they don’t deserve to be shut out but be welcomed for their comeback. Listen out before hastening the decision to call off the invitation to board the ship once again.

Regret and misleading information are the poison vessels of a ship and when it starts to leak there will be no turning back. Trust a person’s choices and accept their presence in this world as something worthy and to be treasured a lifelong. Some losses don’t matter but never let there be any losses that will matter your entire life. Let go the past and cut it out from persisting in the future because the reruns will be a hindrance for the formation of a peaceful life. Compile those imperfections and happily carry the baggage of memories for a lifetime.

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