Distance makes the heart grow fonder

University or college life is all about the endless fun we have despite the downs and making through it with a smile. Our family drops us at the University/college and waits there till we finish the process of registration and check in into our room. Then it’s time to bid farewell and the next moment we will be standing there wiping off the tears which just comes untold. For the early weeks, there will be constant calls from home or we will be making calls several times a day. After some time, it reduces and what would the reason be? I will say it’s because of S.E.N.I.O.R.S.

They are actually the light at the end of the tunnel .The first thing they teach us will be,

1.    “Learn to trust your circle of friends and it’s never wrong to share your burden.”

It’s a normal phenomenon where we don’t immediately trust our circle of friends but treat them more as an acquaintance at first. But there are some lucky ones who gain each other’s trust in a short period and then the road to creating memories begins. For those naive or shy ones our seniors lend a hand. I did learn a lot from some of my seniors and had direct interaction with them and while the ones I didn’t get too often, they did influence me in a good way. For example, there was my senior who always emphasized on togetherness and he would quote,

“Remember at the end of the day, we are all ONE!”

"OHANA"

His spirit and attitude rubbed off on all of us and it was brought down gradually. Seniors are also the ones who will stand by us when there’s trouble regardless of the degree of closeness.

2.    “A friend in need is a friend indeed”

A busy schedule or pending assignment does not stop them from lending their ears to our problems. Most importantly, till the problem is solved we will be in their mind but they won’t allow us to be too dependent on them. It’s like killing two birds with a stone. They help us and build us at the same time. Initially, after talking to them we will be confident in making a decision and stay put even though the decision leads to a rough road. During the discussion, the existence as seniors and juniors just dissipates.

1st batch seniors (some missing in action)

3.    “All work and no play makes Jake a dull boy.”

Organizing events as a team is stressful. We have to ensure that everything is right, starting from the preparation till the day of the event. We might have shown our anger or stress to others but once the event comes to an end all the grudges will be kept aside and initially subside once everyone hits the dance floor. All of us will be there without any judgments by just enjoying that moment. Besides that all of us will make an effort to go out for dinner (mostly) together and laugh out till our stomach hurts. Life does not revolve on studies only.

2nd batch seniors

4.    “Share knowledge and never doubt it.”

Before stepping into the next semester, we will approach our seniors with questions regarding the subjects and what we can expect to learn from that specific subject. They ensure us it is ok to go for the subject of our choice. Other than that, when we are in a dilemma regarding our assignments or projects they are never far away. They are even willing to spend their time teaching us sports and encourage us to play better and excel in studies as well.

5.    “Go as far as you can and remember that love will always unite us.”

One of my friend posted in Facebook stating “You taught us so many things but didn’t teach us to be without you guys.” That is the amount of care they have towards us and never made us doubt even for once even though the first two senior batches have left the campus. Their consistent support and endless encouragement always makes us perform better and of course miss them more.

3rd batch seniors (some missing in action)

Officially the third batch of seniors will be leaving campus and then it will be “US”. I’m sure all of us can’t imagine the speed of time and at the same time; we can’t imagine life has to go on without them. The memories we created together will always be cherished and hopefully, we will be able to be “S.E.N.I.O.R.S” like you guys and accept all our imperfections like how you did and always be ready to be there for our beloved juniors. The untold tears are back, as a sign of gratitude and love for the family which came as a blessing. Distance makes the heart grow founder, so till we meet again

“WE LOVE YOU SENIORS!”