Saturday, 1 April 2017

The beauty of sacrifices

All of us are entitled to sacrifice and there’s always a plus or loss when we look back at our sacrifices. The destiny we choose does not only determine our sacrifices but our entire life does with the twist and turns which we have to go through. Some are forced to accept those changes while some have to endure those to make up to people’s expectation. Nevertheless, it’s always a cycle which gets repeated.


Sacrifices ensure our goals are achieved. What is the point of being born into this world and not fulfilling your part as who you are right? The major problem here is sometimes we turn away not due to the fact of ignorance but unable to tolerate the fact of being transformed into a better version. I do agree that it’s always good to just be “YOU” but sometimes to people’s eyes; you won’t be matching their standards.

After a long time, I met my friend and had a good chat. So I did realize the changes in my friend when my friend started to walk the pathway which is not convenient in the way where many lifeless emotions stick up in the pathway. My friend admitted that small things are being less appreciated instantly, that means if the person is sitting in front there won’t be any thanks instead will be left wondering if the message or text sent suits my friend’s favor or no. Sometimes there’ll be an emotionless face when talking any genre of context. It’s not being dismissive but it’s just that there are multiple tabs open and they need to be focused on a 24/7 basis. If it is closed then it will for sure lead to destruction. Throw everything aside and have the person to yourself during the time spent they say since it’s ethical but for some, it’s kind of impossible.


But the best part of this type of people gets revealed when we zoom in and have a look. They have a large and generous heart which wishes to include all the people into their heart. They try their best to return back what society has given them and it’s not called payback but a duty as a Good Samaritan.  There’s a huge difference between payback and duty here. When there’s this payback context it’s about being in debt and once it’s over we move away but duty is an endless job which persists until the end for the better of others. Besides that, they have the most expressive features. Let them do the talking and all of the sudden send a message to cheer them up and just observe them. A priceless smile will appear and that’s more than enough to answer the question which keeps on popping in our head.

They are very caring people in nature. They might not be there all the time to ensure all goes well but they are the terrific well-wishers who consistently teaches one on independence.  They show their caringness through simple gestures and when you understand that they will not need huge words to describe what or how they feel. They will have huge dreams which sometimes make us feel it’s an impossible task or just a waste of time but for them, it’s a huge commitment. They see a brighter side of it in years to come when it is achieved and sometimes they feel down when people claim it’s ridiculous. Their inner optimism which burns will be put off but they still find a reason to make it burn like the torch in the dark tunnel and use it to guide them throughout their journey independently. If someone doesn’t hold them their torch they don’t make it an issue.


Through scarifies, people change to a “NEW” version but instead of looking at them differently let’s accept them as a unique one. Let’s appreciate their sacrifices and ensure their voice is heard. If the trouble is about understanding them, give them a chance to be who they are and at the same time let’s close the gates to criticism and open the gates to acceptance. Trust me; the world will be a beautiful place to live when each sacrifice is counted as a gift and added into the list of “SPECIAL TASK FORCE” and given sincere appreciation.



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