Don't be the reason behind someones tears

“Don’t cry there. All will be fine.”

Easier said than done actually and in reality, girls tend to do a lot than guys. Well, guys do in discrete too but it’s just maybe they are maintaining their image so-called “STRONG GUY”. But sometimes, in reality, they too are weak and delicate like girls. Everyone have their weak points and never use it to revenge them back because it’s the biggest mistake and it can never be forgiven.

There was recently a topic on radio, “Who are better in handling stress or pressure?”. I heard a guy saying that guys are stronger because they are used to dealing a lot of pressure. They have to handle large responsibilities and one of the most common ones would be being the head of the family. Thus, their tendency to break down is less since they are quite expert in dealing with stress because managing a family is never easy. It is agreeable however in today’s world I do believe girls are also capable of running a family as well as be ready to take over a position which they are entitled to. Well, regardless of the gender each of us has our good and bad times so never take it on anyone.

A relationship between the different genders which may turn out to be best friends, colleagues, husband and wife, love birds and so on can never go far when there’s no mutual understanding. My friend (Risa) and her best friend (Ruben) fight a whole lot and will be complaining some more but at the end of the day, they know they can count on each other. Words do get exchange in a playful manner but not due to anger or harshness. If it does the next minute they will be resolving the whole matter with a sorry. Yup, a simple sorry does wonder. My roommate said it is something more than friendship but not categorized under love. A sincere friendship, which when put to trials never gets shaken with a strong base.

A relationship between a husband and wife does not need explanation since we can see it through our parents. Even if it seems like World War 3 is going to take place any minute, it just subsides and everything will be back to normal. On the other hand, for lovebirds especially newly ones there must always be equality where there's no taking advantage of each other and treating one like rubbish. Words can be said easily but when it is engraved in the heart it never can be erased and when there’s redundancy it will not take long for someone to just walk away from the relationship. It just takes a few minutes to crumble a relationship. Psychologically crying sometimes is the best option to relax the tensed up nerves but it does not mean you have to cry for every single thing.

ONLY cry when needed not all time. Once you’re finished, pick up the broken pieces and continue the battle. You don’t want to end up being a quitter right? At the same time, in any circumstances which may be handling a project or working as a team, there will always be the existence of a “PEST”. Solve it professionally that is with proper communication. I know you will have the need to burst out and say some harsh words and walk away but the next day there will be this non-conducive environment which turns up due to our actions. The anger which then builds up can never reside and without everyone’s contribution, the work will never be completed.

When you make someone cry it also means putting their confidence level to test. They will feel insecure and it might tend to affect their overall performance. We might be ahead of them but remember they deserve an equal chance too. At times we have to make a move, to ensure things are back on track. But do not make it as a habit until the person will merely take advantage of every opportunity. Be wise with your choice of words and respect people’s feeling. Never attempt to make a furious person feel better until you really know how to work it out. Since some are self-dealers; some are advice seekers while some are damagers (ALERT ZONE since the volcano will erupt any minute!). Let’s not be the victim (punching-bag) and at the same time let’s not make a huge deal about their break down. Time heals everything and believe that better days are ahead!

A TRIBUTE TO ALL STRONG FIGHTERS OUT THERE.

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