The unique flowers

Flowers multiply the beauty of a place or garden. Each has their own identity where they will be different by the number of petals, type of leaf, type of root and so on. In particular, each flower has its own needs whereby the amount of water, fertilizer, and care will vary. Their needs are also determined in accordance with the environmental factor as well.

In real life, this flower represents a woman. The amount of water is the amount of trust and love the parents have for her. The dark days for women have come to an end and now they are treated equally. When she is nurtured with proper guidance her true nature will resemble her inner beauty. Next is the amount of fertilizer which represents her dreams and hopes. She may want to be a doctor, engineer or even jobs which are historically governed by men. Let her go and let her hopes soar high. In between the growth phase, there will be factors such as people scrutinizing her, talking behind her back, comment on her appearance and so on always ensuring her downfall. That is where society, family, and friends have to ensure she’s back on track, hold her and make sure to bring out the best from her. She needs care from her loved ones throughout the journey. At the same time, there will be pests which attack her and cause her life to be at stake. For example, those who cause sexual harassment, abuse or rape her. She will lose her entire life causing her to tear apart and that should not happen. So, pest control should be done where there should be eyes (men or even other female counterparts) on her not to feast or revenge on her but ensure her safety. The flower has a long way to go and before it wilts and undergoes renascence it will ensure something is left behind as a memory.

Being a woman is a noble duty. Especially in this world, women face many challenges and changes causing them to make sacrifices for another’s better days. A family’s well being falls on a woman’s shoulder. They get married and they have to take additional tasks where cooking, cleaning, taking care of children will fall into the list. But she does not complain. In between her newly married life and duties she conceives and will have many doubts on herself. “I’m fat. I’m outgrowing my clothes. I’m no longer attractive. I have swollen ankles.” She just dances to the hormones which she herself loses control. That is after being officially declared as a wife. How about when she’sin her teens and early adulthood? Her curly hair might not favor her and wearing spectacles might make her feel that she looks nerdy. She will try to give her best “SELFIE’ post with her pimpled face but then gives up. Today morning my junior girl said,

“I don’t look nice when I snap a “SELFIE” on my phone.”

I said, “If everything is perfect then we will never value imperfection. It’s not important being beautiful in a picture but it’s much more valuable when it’s in reality.” She smiled in agreement.

The woman then grows old. An entire world map can be seen on her face. But she puts up her best for her grandchildren. Her journey is endless, where there’s no substitute for her place she just gradually upgrades herself by going through different phases and subsequently places her name in history. She might not be the next Mother Teresa but she will leave the world by identifying who she was and leaves a mark in her loved one's heart. 

For all of this to become a reality, she will need a whole lot of moral support and love. It is true that women nowadays are very much independent where they can make a living equivalent to their male counterpart or even higher but they too are humans. They too need some tender loving care (TLC). Therefore, not only let women have a break on Sunday but always appreciate her presence and believe that there is never a flawless girl or woman in this world. The flaws made her a better person and each of them deserve a chance to live a better life. Do not underestimate her capability or judgment because when she puts her heart to something she will eventually rule the WORLD!

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMAN’S DAY to all women out there!

P.S- Guys, if you are to read this please do not get offended. It's just a special dedication for the women on their special day. Thank you. 😇

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