Biggest Challenge in Life: The Weak Point

There’ll never be a perfect human and even if it exists then it’ll be the end of the world. Seriously, think about perfect humans walking around and there’ll not even be the courtesy to greet since we will think that we are superior to the other. We will try to dominate the other person and live with the agony of being the best while the human race slowly gets swept off. Scary to think of it right? That’s why when the Almighty created human he added some flaws to define uniqueness and to always learn from each other. A complete human is when he or she learns to find the imperfections in each other and feel complacent about it especially when they learn to accept a person’s weak point.

The weak point is like the trigger button which causes one to express the deeply hidden emotion. It may be in the form of an outburst, anger, sudden silence and with a little mixture of actions at times. The trigger button will not get triggered without a reason and there will usually be a sensitive issue or phobia behind it. Its presence maybe since childhood or else some experiences made it appear in life later on. Even though some will easily disregard it, yet they don’t realize it’s the biggest challenge in life. Adapting and controlling our weak point is not as easy as ABC.

Humans undergo different phases in life such as studying phase, working phase, and there’ll be an interaction between humans in each phase. We will get acquainted with unknown people and they will become special to our heart and when they become our weak point in the name of love that is where it all begins. Even though it gives a wonderful feeling, it can also establish an equal amount of avoiding human contact and managing it requires a whole lot of self-discipline and self-control.

My friend here is a very responsible person and believes that the enlisted dreams and goals are achievable despite some people tagging it as something unreasonable. Knowing new people is my friend’s part and parcel of life and since life catches one by surprise my friend always keeps a reasonable distance between loved ones. Getting symbolic names due to the attitude is a normal thing for my friend. Yet, somehow I understood the reason behind the action. Our profound mind has the ability to divert and revert but it entirely depends on how we are dealing with it. Some are smart enough to balance work or responsibilities with relationships. However, most of us don’t and the day ends up as an unproductive day. In order to avoid that, and be on the safe side my friend quits being a deal breaker for a relationship instead deals with a number of things in the platter and ensures there’s no leftover. In reality, there will be very minimal phone calls and messages and it’s my friend’s way of applying self-control and discipline in life which tend to be judged wrongly by a majority group of people.

Life is a single journey and many of us favor a duo performance but only strong hearts will be ready to put up a solo performance. Maintaining a reasonable distance means, it does not mean we are putting up a barrier but it’s about being realistic and grabbing an opportunity which only knocks your door once.  The opportunity will bring you far but the willingness will be pulled down by your weak point. So, it’s not wrong to have a weak point since every human being will have one but don’t allow it to shatter your dreams and goals. Embrace your weak point in a good way and accept it that without it, you won’t be the complete person with imperfections which says that you are unique.

Remember do not use a person’s weak point to discriminate or use it against them as well!

P.S- I wrote this in my point of view and I hope it is an acceptable fact. My apologies for any mistakes or hurtful statements. Thank you. 

Pictures: Google images